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December 17, 2007   •   VOL. 45, NO. 21    •   Oakland, CA

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Festival of lights in Livermore

Deacon Dave Rezendes heads up Santa’s Secret Service

Diocese honors Our Lady of Guadalupe

California bishops offer suggestions for immigration reform

Mary Help of Christians Parish faces challenge of sustainability

Recycle your e-waste at St. Vincent de Paul thrift stores

Retiring funeral director reflects on 60-plus years of service

Abortion’s impact on men examined in S.F. conference

Annual Walk for Life set for January 19 in San Francisco

Nun-critic offers viewers’guide for ‘The Golden Compass’

Catholic radio begins in Bay Area

Christmas marks 100th anniversary of first Mass in Berkeley church

Christmas programs to air on EWTN

War might end Christianity in Iraq

Mary’s singular grace proclaimed at Lourdes

A pilgrimage to Lourdes is a journey of expectant faith

Plenary indulgence authorized for visits to Lourdes

Report examines retailers’ marketing practices on violent video games

OBITUARIES

 

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Retiring funeral director reflects on
60-plus years of service
 


John McCormick

Even on his last day at work, John McCormick, the longtime funeral director at Oakland’s Clarence N. Cooper Mortuary, never once sounded like a man who was ready to retire.

Although weakened by hacking coughs and shortness of breath caused by pulmonary fibrosis, the 81-year-old was armed with both a long-term memory and quick humor during an interview with The Voice. Joining him was Carol Blunt, his friend and co-worker.

“He was an excellent embalmer,” said Blunt, a great-niece of Clarence Cooper.

“What do you mean I was?” McCormick shot back with a twinkle in his eye.

After the laughter subsided, Blunt continued: “He would get compliments all the time from the other embalmers.”

McCormick’s retirement became official on Dec. 5, the same day that the Catholic Funeral and Cemetery Services of the Diocese of Oakland announced its agreement to acquire the mortuary. Although McCormick had been funeral director at Cooper’s since 1976, his employment at the Fruitvale area establishment goes back six decades.

The Oakland native was a student at nearby St. Elizabeth High School in late 1942 when he learned about a job opening at the mortuary. As a result of World War II, a number of mortuary employees had been drafted into military service. Clarence Cooper had died in 1935 and his wife, who was running the business, needed help. She approached the pastor at St. Elizabeth Parish and asked him to help her find young men to work at the mortuary as night attendants. McCormick was one of two young men who “were sent over.”

“There were two of us and Mrs. Cooper hired us both. But the other boy was older so he started right away. I started the next May, 1943,” he recalled.

As a night attendant, the then-16-year-old had a number of responsibilities that included answering the front door, ushering guests to the respective rooms for visitation, answering phones, and sending the ambulance out on calls to pick up the deceased during the night. “In those days you worked every other night and every other weekend,” he said.

When McCormick graduated from high school, he began his apprenticeship. “We worked the regular shift. There were always three shifts at the mortuary because it is a 24-hour business.”

After he was drafted, McCormick spent two years in the army. Then he returned to Cooper’s and enrolled in embalming college. By the time he received his embalmer’s license in the early 1950s, the mortuary had a large volume of work — about 600 cases a year. “We had two hearses, two limos and eight embalmers. We were constantly going,” McCormick recalled.

Many of the families were from neighboring parishes — St. Jarlath, St. Elizabeth, St. Louis Bertand and Mary Help of Christians.

The expansion of the freeway system and development of BART resulted in the loss of hundreds of area homes. Many older residents moved away and younger families moved into the area. With all these changes, the mortuary’s work decreased, said Carol Blunt, who has worked at the mortuary since 1976.

Over the years, the faces in the neighborhood have also changed. In the early years the mortuary served mostly Irish, German and Portuguese families. Today many of their clients come from the Latino community.

Every ethnic group has different customs and ways of honoring their dead relatives and loved ones, said McCormick. He and others at the mortuary have tried to learn about these different customs and be respectful of people’s traditions. “You treat them all with love,” he said. “It’s simple.”

Over the years, McCormick has seen many changes in the ways funeral homes operate. For instance, in his early days, when a body was brought to the funeral home, it was embalmed immediately. Today embalming cannot take place without a written authorization from the family.

The increased number of cremations is another change. Robert Seelig, Catholic funeral and cemetery services director for the diocese, said today in California about 54 percent of the general population opt for cremation. The percentage of Catholics choosing cremation has also increased. Within the last 15 years about 20 percent of Catholics have sought cremation.

McCormick has also seen the costs for funerals rise sharply. He remembers when the cost of a casket was about $130 and the limo was automatically part of the mortuary costs. Many families did not own cars, he said. Today an average funeral costs about $6,000 and the burial costs another $4,000-$5,000 according to a recent survey in the East Bay, Seelig said. (The diocese offers a list of service plans that are less expensive.)

Cooper Mortuary tried to help families keep expenses down, said McCormick. Part of that effort was a decision not to accept credit cards as payment for services. “We started (accepting them) once but stopped it for the simple reason that we felt that the interest that people were paying for their credit card was like usury and so, if need be, we would carry them at no interest at all.”

Seelig said the diocese does not turn anyone away from its mortuaries and cemeteries because of financial need.

McCormick said that throughout his long career, his main goal was to be of support to family members, some in shock or reeling from grief, and lead them to make decisions for a funeral that they feel comfortable with and can afford.

If he was “in some small way” a help to others, John McCormick said that would be his greatest reward.


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