By Sharon Abercrombie
Staff writer
“Let’s
go get tested.”
Those were the words uttered by a couple of frightened St. Joseph /Notre
Dame High School students in Alameda last spring, as they left a gathering
held in St. Joseph Basilica. The kids had just heard a young HIV-positive
adult speak about the effects of the illness on his life. He had contracted
the virus while in high school.
The man had been invited by HIV-AIDS Education and Outreach Ministry of
Alameda to tell his own story and to answer anonymously written questions
from the kids. The ministry is a deanery-wide outreach supported by St.
Albert, St. Barnabas, St. Joseph and St. Philip Neri parishes.
The speaker told the students that there is no vaccine for HIV/AIDS. His
illness cannot be cured. So he faces a regime of around the-clock, life-extending
medications--powerful potions which come with their own sickening side
effects.
During the assembly the students learned that 60 million people worldwide
have been infected with the virus and 26 million have died during the
past 25 years. They learned that 25 percent of all new HIV cases in the
U.S. occur in people under the age of 21.
For the two students and their classmates, that particular gathering might
have been the most significant of their young lives, especially if the
man’s story motivated them to get tested and to stop being sexually
irresponsible.
Which is exactly what Sue Spiersch, a parishioner at St. Joseph’s,
and Cath Sullivan, her ministry colleague from St. Barnabas, are hoping
will happen. They want to break down the wall of invincibility which convinces
teens and young adults that “it won’t happen to me.”
They want these kids to know the ugly, frightening facts of what HIV and
other STDs can do to their young, vulnerable bodies.
“The most powerful thing we can do is to listen to HIV-positive
young people,” said Spiersch. To hear someone very nearly their
own age who is living with the virus and who also can give them the facts
about other kinds of STD’s “brings them up short,” she
said.
Sullivan and Spiersch serve as the co-chairs for this ministry, which
was founded in 1993. The group began with 25 volunteers who, through the
years, have delivered meals to people suffering from AIDS, driven them
to doctors’ appointments, run errands, and helped families link
up to service providers. Presently, the group stands at 10 and more volunteers
are needed, said Sullivan.
Many of the original helpers joined after losing family members to AIDS,
but when their lives changed, and they worked through their grief, they
moved on. Others burned out from seeing so many friends and relatives
die of the disease.
The volunteers have been responsible for a wide spectrum of services during
the past 13 years. They have delivered 26,647 meals. There have also been
over 2,100 bags of groceries donated by parishes and delivered to clients.
Through its emotional and spiritual care, the ministry has sponsored 12
interfaith services involving pastors and members of more than a dozen
15 Alameda churches. Volunteers have amassed over 21,400 caregiver hours
and facilitated over 1,450 grief sessions.
They also participate each July in the annual AIDS Walk in San Francisco,
which raises millions of dollars for social service agencies who work
with AIDS sufferers and their families.
The outreach to young people and their parents is the group’s newest
project. Here’s why: In a national survey by SIECUS conducted several
years ago on teenage sexual activity, teenagers have the highest rates
of sexually transmitted diseases of any age group. The survey also reports
that the estimated number of AIDS diagnoses through 2002 in children under
the age of 13 is 9,300 in the U.S. alone. A little over six percent of
students reported initiating intercourse before age 13.
When these new statistics about youth came out, volunteers decided to
expand their ministry. The group applied for grants and sponsored rummage
and bake sales so they could purchase age-appropriate educational videos
for school libraries. They raised over $4,000.
Thanks to the ministry, the videos, which were produced by the Education
and Training Resources, (ETR), a non-profit health education organization,
now occupy the shelves of every middle and high school library in the
City of Alameda, parochial as well as public schools.
On the church side, the videos had to be approved by pastors and then
school principals. In public schools, local school boards had to okay
them. “It was a long process,” said Sullivan.
The ministry keeps two sets of the videos to loan out to parents. Some
of the titles for high schoolers include: “HIV and Teens: Remembering
Krista Blake,” “STD’s Straight Talk,” “The
Truth About Sex,” and “STD’s, AIDS and The Clean Love
Solution.” There are also videos for grades four through six, including
“HIV and AIDS: Staying Safe.”
The videos underscore the need for abstinence as the best way to stop
the spread of HIV, and they provide information on how the virus gets
transmitted: through having unprotected sex and through sharing needles
with someone who is HIV-positive.
“If we could just get this information out to enough people, we
could stop the spread of HIV-AIDS with this generation of school kids,”
said Sullivan.
The videos also deal with the prejudice against people with AIDS, and
dispel myths as to how the disease is spread – for example, through
sharing the same cup of water.
After the St. Joseph Notre Dame High School assembly, parish ministry
members distributed handouts with information about the videos. Spiersch
said a mom quickly phoned her about borrowing some of them. The mom then
organized a pizza party for several of her son’s friends and their
parents. They watched the films and then discussed what they had seen.
To borrow the videos, contact Sue Spiersch at (510) 522-8431 or Cath Sullivan
at (510) 865-3051.
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