| By
Barbara Erickson
Associate editor
The day Tony
Diaz fell from a balcony and lay dying in a Chico hospital, his family
gathered to hear a delicate plea for help: Would they donate his organs
to patients waiting for transplants?
Diaz, 29 years old and one of 10 children, had struck his head on a railroad
tie and would soon die without artificial life support. Eight of his siblings
and his parents listened as staff from the California Transplant Donor
Network spoke of patients waiting for the gift of life, of the need for
healthy hearts, kidneys and other organs.
They heard of the 89,000 people in the U.S. on waiting lists for life-saving
organ transplants, of the 20 people who, on average, die each day waiting
for organs. They learned that the hospital had been required by law to
notify an organ procurement group when brain death is imminent.
They may also have known that Catholic teaching supports organ donation
– Pope John Paul II called it “a genuine act of love”
– and Sacramento Bishop William Weigand is himself the recipient
of a partial liver transplant from a live donor.
Family consent
When the Network staff approached the family, they were “very cautious,
very understanding, very humble,” said Gina McKeen, the eldest of
the siblings. Although the family had never considered organ donation
before, they knew their brother would want to do it.
“We said we had to really think about what Tony would have wanted,
not what we wanted,” said McKeen, a member of Christ the King Parish
in Pleasant Hill. “It didn’t take us long because we all knew
Tony so well.”
The family gave their consent, and doctors harvested his heart, liver,
pancreas, a cornea, his kidneys, skin from his back, and bone from his
arms and legs. That was in September 2002, and in the three years since
her brother died, McKeen has been sending letters through the Network
in an effort to meet the recipients.
She has made contact with one of them, a man also named Tony and, like
his donor, one of 10 children in a family of three boys. She hopes especially
to communicate with the person who received her brother’s heart.
Waiting for a donor
Crystal Capser is herself a recipient who applauds the family’s
decision to give life. Capser, a parishioner at St. Joseph in Pinole,
went into end stage kidney failure after living with Type I diabetes for
more than 27 years. A transplant was her best chance for long-term survival,
and doctors told her that a dual operation – transplanting a kidney
and pancreas at the same time – would free her from diabetes.
She had always taken care of herself, Capser said, and she was declared
fit to undergo the double procedure. She placed herself on a waiting list
and began a regimen of home dialysis.
“Dialysis is a slow death and you don’t feel well,”
Capser said, but she kept track of her progress upward on the list. “Sometimes
I was two or three on the list, and then I would be bumped back down again.”
Recipients move up or down in priority depending on the severity of their
illness and any complications that might arise, such as coming down with
the flu. And those at the top of the list might be skipped if someone
below is a better match for the organs being donated.
A generous act
Donors should be approximately the same size as the recipient, have the
same blood type and, usually, have the same ethnic background. On Nov.
8, 2000, after she had spent more than a year on the waiting list, Capser
got the call that said her match had been found.
Her operation was a success. “For the past five years I’ve
been doing wonderfully,” she said. “The organs are functioning
beautifully. I feel blessed each and every day.”
She has also gained the friendship of her donor’s family, the relatives
of Juan Namowicz, who was 24 when he died. He was working as a tree feller
when a crew, not knowing he was on the ground, dropped a tree on him.
Namowicz left a wife and two children.
Capser wrote a four-page letter to his family through the Network, “just
thanking them and letting them know who I was.” When they responded,
she said, it “was as exciting as getting the phone call about the
transplant. I wrote back and they called the next day.”
Now Capser and her donor’s family get together often. “We
talk on the phone,” she said. “His sister and I email each
other all the time. They tell me they’re very grateful his organs
went to me.”
Church teaching
During a speech to the International Congress of the Transplantation Society
in 2000, Pope John Paul II said the decisions of donor family members
have “their own ethical validity,” and declared that organ
donation was not just “giving away something that belongs to us
but giving something of ourselves.”
He cautioned that donation must be free of commercial interest, that organs
should not be sold, and that decisions on who receives transplants must
not be based on a person’s usefulness or on their ethnicity, religion
or other personal factors, but solely on their clinical situation.
“There is a need to instill in people’s hearts, especially
in the hearts of the young, a genuine and deep appreciation of the need
for brotherly love, a love that can find expression in the decision to
become an organ donor,” the pope said.
Deep gratitude
McKeen said she experiences the grateful love of organ recipients when
she attends events in honor of donor families. “Whenever I get around
recipients, they are just so grateful,” she said. “It gives
you the justification that what you did was correct.”
She sends a letter at least once a year to all of her brother’s
recipients through the Network. She simply says that her family would
like to hear from them if they feel like responding, but so far only the
other Tony, the liver recipient, has written back.
The Network tells her that all of the recipients are doing well. “That
makes me feel good,” McKeen said, “because they’re all
taking care of our brother’s organs.”
Capser said she likes to tell her story to groups and, like McKeen, volunteers
for the Network. “It is a very positive story for me,” she
said, “living with diabetes, going through the transplant, living
free of disease.”
She and McKeen urge everyone interested in donating organs to sign up
on the Web site: www.donatelifecalifornia.org.
The site provides a private registry for hospitals and doctors.
Capser also invites individuals and groups to call her for speaking engagements
and information. She is available at (510) 758-8541 or by email at crystalhelene@comcast.net.
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On her 40th birthday, Crystal Capser celebrates with
the family of the late Juan Namowicz, whose transplanted kidney and pancreas
saved her life. Capser is holding Namowicz’s daughter, Lorena.

Juan Namowicz with his daughter Lorena and son Isaac
before his accidental death at age 24, when a tree fell on him.
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