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Unjustly judged
Now it’s official that gays generally can’t be ordained priests.
The Church is so high on social justice I can’t see how they can
justify this order. They are unjustly judging a whole group of people.
It’s like assuming that all singles are automatically fornicators
and all divorced people are adulterers. In 16 years of Catholic education
I was taught that judging people IS a sin.
This judging for some reason isn’t sinful?
David Ross
Fremont
Efforts to misinform
Father James Schexnayder (Forum, Nov. 21) says Jim Crowley’s observation
(Forum, Nov. 7) that “81 percent of priest-abuse cases involve men
who are homosexual” is “patently false.”
Greg Bullough, writing from New Jersey, wrongly alleges (and Schexnayder
falsely implies) that Crowley misquoted the John Jay study. Bullough further
accuses Crowley of “hate-speech veiled in feeble logic.” (Forum,
Nov. 21).
In fact, Crowley didn’t mention the Jay report. But it does relate
that “81percent of victims were male,” and that “Male
victims tended to be older than female victims”(page 9).
The U.S. bishops’ National Review Board, examining the facts, affirmed
that “the crisis was characterized by homosexual behavior”
(www.usccb.org/nrb/nrbstudy/nrbreport.htm).
So it’s Father Schexnayder and Bullough who misdirect the faithful.
Since 1994, the National Association of Catholic Diocesan Lesbian and
Gay ministries, of which Father Schexnayder is resource director, has
sought to normalize and affirm homosexuality in the Church and in society
at large.
In contrast, the Church correctly recognizes homosexuality as “objectively
disordered,” and homosexual acts as “contrary to the natural
law”(Catechism of the Catholic Church, nn. 2357, 2358).
Father Schexnayder sometimes speaks through surrogates — for example,
a NACDLGM conference presenter, featured on its website, recommending
church-based “affirmation of gay behaviors and not just identities.”
Observing 1995’s Bay Area Network of Gay and Lesbian Educators (BANGLE)
conference at Holy Names College, I witnessed Father Schexnayder’s
apparent rationale: “It’s important to communicate the substance
of our lives as gay and lesbian people,” he said.
Appropriately, Rome now prohibits Holy Orders for those “who practice
homosexuality, show profoundly deep-rooted homosexual tendencies, or support
the so-called gay culture.”
Michael Arata
Danville
Caution needed
Father Jim Schexnayder (Forum, Nov. 21) correctly states that the John
Jay College report did not say that 81 percent of the priest abuse cases
involved men who are homosexual. What the report did say is that 81 percent
of the cases involved homosexual acts. There is an important distinction
here, but the implication in the rest of Father Jim’s letter, that
homosexual priests had little to do with the problem, is not supported
by the balance of the report.
Homosexual men preying on adolescent boys 11 to 18 years of age is not
limited to the clergy. In our society, this activity is common among some
gay men, (though not all gay men). Boys in this age group are referred
to as “twinks.” Entering this word into any search engine
will reveal several websites devoted to this specific type of sexual activity.
These men are not pedophiles, as is often reported, but homosexual men
with a strong attraction to teenage boys.
For our bishops not to be hesitant to admit into our seminaries, candidates
who have strong homosexual tendencies, would be highly irresponsible.
Jim Dempsey
Walnut Creek
Set same standards
In an ideal and fair world, The Voice article (Nov. 21) on the Vatican
banning gays from the priesthood might have read, “The Vatican is
set to release a long-awaited document that bars men from becoming priests
if they are sexually active, publicly support a ‘sexually promiscuous
culture,’ or exhibit ‘deeply rooted heterosexual or homosexual
tendencies’...”
Such a document would not single out gays, but would set the same standards
for straight and gay men considering the priesthood. Both groups of men
would then be held to clearing up tendencies three years before being
ordained.
Mark Gotvald
Pleasant Hill
An affront to gay priests
For the first time in my 60-year life as a Catholic I can state categorically
I am truly ashamed to say I’m a Catholic. The recent articles in
the newspapers about Rome’s decision to exclude gay men from entering
seminaries because of the Church’s stand about homosexuality is
obscene.
The underlying message from Rome is that the gay clergy are the reason
for all of the pedophile lawsuits. This is an affront and an insult to
the many fine gay priests who minister to us and who have dedicated their
lives to God and have served the Church faithfully for many years.
The Church just doesn’t get it. The pope, the cardinals and the
bishops are the reason for all of the pedophile lawsuits because they
each chose to put our children in harm’s way by moving the pedophile
priests around rather than take them out of ministry after one offense
like they are supposed to do now.
The born-again Christians have a saying — “What would Jesus
do?” Would Jesus look down on homosexuals?
He certainly didn’t look down on the prostitutes, lepers or tax
collectors. He chose to be with the sinners and accepted them as his children
and turned his back on the religious leaders of his day. He chastised
the Sanhedrin, the Pharisees, and the Scribes about being too concerned
with their rules and their religious rituals and not concerned enough
about loving each other as God’s children.
Sue Spiersch
Alameda
No place for group guilt
Jim Crowley’s letter (Forum, Nov. 7) commented on the upcoming Vatican
audit of U.S. seminaries, designed to purge those with “deeply rooted”
homosexual tendencies, those “supporting gay culture,” etc.
Crowley stated “the plain truth is that at least 81 percent of priest-abuse
cases involve men who are homosexual”. What a remarkable claim,
given the U.S. bishops’ report stating approximately 9200 (83%)
of 11,000 abuse allegations covering 50 years were never investigated
by anyone, clerical or lay. There is no way to determine guilt or sexual
proclivities without investigation.
Bishops were obligated to investigate. They did not. They closed ranks.
They facilitated abuse instead. They protected their organization, not
our children.
Crowley allows that “There probably are priests with homosexual
orientation who have never violated vows of celibacy in their lives.”
Couldn’t one substitute ‘heterosexual’ with equal assertion?
Assigning group guilt for individual crimes cannot be accepted. Crowley’s
comments look like an extremist SNAP (Survivors Network of those Abused
by Priests) tirade where strident accusation seems enough and assumed
innocence is an anachronism.
Shamefully, the U.S. bishops likewise refused due process for subordinates
while collegially absolving brother bishops. They gave their mea maxima
culpas for “mistakes” while depleting Church assets of $1
billion.
No bishop was fired. Remarkable. Sad. And Bishop Vigneron’s new
abuse policy still refuses clerical due process.
Joe Moran
Orinda
The issue is celibacy
A priest is a priest. He is celibate, no matter what his sexual inclination.
I don’t mean to disagree with the pope, but for over 65 years I
have seen and known many priests from New York to California. Their sexual
inclination never hindered them in their love and devotion to Jesus.
Sexual deviants in the Church have not all been homosexuals.
I have been fortunate that I have met priests who helped me in my times
of despair in the most professional manner and were always inspirational
to my family and me.
Lillian Silver
Walnut Creek
A night on the streets
On Dec. 1, I participated in an overnight vigil, sponsored by Religion
Witness with the Homeless, founded and coordinated by Sister Bernie Galvan.
It involved sleeping outdoors like the homeless in the San Francisco City
Hall plaza.
I admire Sister Bernie, whom I got to know during an interview with her
for “Street Spirit,” and I wanted to come to help out. Sister
Bernie told the 20 of us participating that she hoped the weather would
be cold, windy and rainy so we could have our consciousness raised about
what homeless people go through every night.
I met a young woman named Allison who was participating in the vigil and
was homeless herself. She had been a nurse and lost her job due to a conflict
with her employer on principles. Her wealthy family, who were Catholic,
has rejected her, saying she got what she deserved. She was soured on
religion.
The weather cooperated with Sister Bernie’s wishes. During the night,
rain came down heavily, and I was glad I had purchased a tarp to cover
my sleeping bag. The wind almost blew the tarp off me and I was so cold
and damp that I didn’t sleep a wink.
The next morning, a rabbi participant in the vigil led us in a Hebrew
prayer about the equality of all people and the dignity of every human
person.
My night convinced me of the great suffering of the homeless. Yet I was
proud to be part of the struggle against Mayor Gavin Newsom’s Care
Not Cash program that takes away most of the General Assistance check
in exchange for housing (which is not always decent transitional housing,
but a bed in a public shelter) and leaves the homeless person with $59
a month.
Maureen Hartmann
Oakland
A Christmas reflection
As we await Christ’s birthday, may the following suggestions help
prepare our hearts for this holiday season.
When you do something with candles – an Advent wreath, decorations,
dinner table – remember that Jesus is the Light of the World.
When you unpack the Christmas decorations, think back with joy on the
memories of Christmases past and the many things you are grateful for
over the years.
When you are shopping, see the crowds not as faceless masses of people,
but see individuals as Jesus sees them.
When you address your Christmas cards, think of the shepherds who first
told the Good News and offer a prayer for the person to whom you are sending
the card.
When you wrap presents, think of the gift that was wrapped in swaddling
clothes so long ago and that each gift you give is a symbol of that Great
Gift.
When you hear Christmas music, sing along with it either aloud or in your
heart. Glory to God in the highest…
When decorating your Christmas tree, think and talk about your family
tress. Go as far back as you can, remembering each person who is part
of your heritage.
When company comes, remember Our Lord also comes to be a guest in our
homes. How lonely it must feel when there is no room at the inn.
Enjoy his birthday as he blesses you and yours.
Marybeth Byrne
Alameda
No to women priests
Barbara Hazzard, OSB, wrote, in reference to a recent picture of our diocesan
priests that she hopes that “someday the picture will show an equal
number of women priests.” (Forum, Nov. 21).
I would like to refer Sister Hazzard to the Apostolic Letter of John Paul
II, “Ordinatio Sacerdotalis” (On Reserving Priestly Ordination
to Men Alone, May 22,1994), which reaffirms the teaching that “the
Church has no authority whatsoever to confer priestly ordination on women
and that this judgment is to be definitively held by all the Church’s
faithful.”
In his “Responsum ad Dubium” regarding this apostolic letter,
(Sacred Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, October 28, 1995),
then-Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger states that “this teaching requires
definitive assent...founded on the written Word of God...it has been set
forth infallibly by the ordinary and universal Magisterial...to be held
always, everywhere, and by all, as belonging to the deposit of faith.”
In other words, the teaching of “Ordinatio Sacerdotalis” is
Church doctrine. It will never change and must be believed by all Roman
Catholics.
There is even a warning to those who teach the contrary, found in the
Presentation of the Apostolic Letter “Ordinatio Sacerdotalis”
(Vatican Press, May 30, 1994): “...since it does not belong to matters
freely open to dispute, it always requires the full and unconditional
assent of the faithful, and to teach the contrary is equivalent to leading
consciences into error.”
So it appears that Sister Hazzard’s hope for a picture with women
priests can never be developed. It is curious, however, that a religious
such as herself would not be familiar with “Ordinatio Sacerdotalis.”
In any event, my hope is that Sister Hazzard, as a faithful servant of
our Mother Church and Holy Father, will read “Ordinatio Sacerdotalis”
(maybe even the “Catechism of the Catholic Church”) and never
lead any poor souls into error.
Thomas Graves
Castro Valley
Don’t call God our Mother
Julie McCarty (Voice, Nov. 21) rightly points out that all good qualities,
including those of a mother, come from God. But from that it does not
follow that God may be called our Mother.
With respect to humanity, God is unquestionably our Father, as we are
on the receiving end of His amazing gift of life. Jesus called him “Father,”
and he taught us to call him “Father.”
He has given us a perfect mother: the same beautiful mother he created
especially for himself, the Blessed Virgin Mary.
Catherine Norman
Fremont
Appropriate dress
I do not think John Marquette (Forum, Oct. 17) is telling men they have
to wear a tie and sport coat or suit and that women must ear a dress or
skirt when they go to church. He is telling us to dress appropriately.
If you go to see the president of a large company, I do not think you
would wear shorts and t-shirts into his office.
Some day if you go to San Francisco, stop at the Russian Orthodox cathedral
on Geary Street and read the sign at the entrance. It states that men
and women may not go into the church in shorts and women may no even wear
pants or a pantsuit. This applies even when there is no service going
on.
Let’s remember, this is God’s house.
William J. Beiriger
Livermore
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